February 2010

The Reverend Philip Banks writes:

The Burdens we carry

 Do you ever ‘people watch’? I was waiting with a clergy colleague for a train last month, and found myself with a few minutes to spare. The first person I noticed was a young woman and all that she was carrying – or, rather, all that she was trying to carry – whilst running for her train. Her luggage consisted of an enormous rucksack, a suitcase on wheels, a large carrier bag – as well as a huge sports bag with EULC – ‘Exeter University Lacrosse Club’ – emblazoned on it. From the bag protruded large lacrosse sticks, which looked rather like a cross between fishing nets and tennis rackets (as you can tell, this is a sport that I know nothing about!). It isn’t every day you see someone loaded up quite in that way – and my friend and I were anxious that, with one wrong foot she would have toppled over – or else done a fellow traveller some serious injury with her lacrosse sticks!

 

Within a few moments, the next person I spotted was a middle-aged lady who had sadness written all over her face – there was no sign of a smile anywhere – she looked thoroughly weighed down, and even the encouraging look I gave her had no effect. The third person I spotted was a fairly smartly dressed young man, but who was shuffling along with his bag, looking rather distracted and world-weary, and appeared to be suffering from the effects of too much drink.

 

The lacrosse girl carried her ‘burdens’ in a very obvious way. Everyone could see the difficulties she was coping with. The other two, however, were far less obvious – clearly something was wrong, but you would need to spend time to dig deep to find out what crosses they were carrying, and to discover the cause of their sadness. Three people in the space of a few moments – all of whom looked thoroughly over burdened by pressures that they perhaps could not manage or control. This got me thinking, not just about others, but about myself: when you take a moment to think, you might ask yourself what are the things that weigh you down? Or some of your friends or family – what are their burdens?

 

Our knowledge of being loved by God in Jesus Christ can often prompt us to respond in a practical way to the burdens others carry. The response in our church and community to the tragedy in Haiti bears witness to this love. Out of our Christian love towards others, we can and should respond as sensitively and as best we can to the burdens others carry.

 

As Christians, we can also know that we are not alone in the weights we carry. It is not by accident that we read in scripture “My yoke is easy and my burden light”1 and “Cast all your anxiety on him for he cares for you”2. This is not just wishful thinking; rather it can be a reality for all people of faith. But is does require an intentional act on our part – that we do genuinely hand over to God the things that weigh us down. And that is a challenge – to admit that we are not actually capable of doing life alone. To intentionally depend on God each day, to start each day with a prayer asking for his leading hand and guiding spirit to be with you – helps you grow in strength, both for yourself and for those around us who carry heavy burdens in their lives.

 

As the season of Lent begins this month, may we each be people who intentionally depend on God each day, and may God’s touch strengthen our faith and trust in him that we may follow his purposes for our lives.

 

With my prayers and every blessing to you this coming Lent and Easter.

 

Fr Philip

 

1 Matthew 11:30

2 1 Peter 5:7, cf Ps 55:22

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